I hate models...no I take that back I despise those brittle thin women that make it their lives work to make women of other various sizes feel bad about themselves. All women should know that if they are healthy then that is all that truly matters, if they want to get toned and all that then they should do it for themselves and not for the type of person that they are sexually attracted to. I can't understand why some women feel that it is necessary to mutilate their own bodies just to get the attention of someone else.
When women do that then young girls think that they should be that way too. Younger children look to the more mature people in their lives for guidance on what they should say, do and be in their own lives. Its like working from clay. They are there developing in their own ways but they will emulate other people in some ways then bend it or take it to different levels based on society and their own personal outlook of themselves. Soooo I have to ask this very important question:
WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH A WOMAN HAVING CURVES!!!!
I mean really! A woman does not have to be a skeleton in order to live in today's society and the damn press, models, actresses and MEN need to lay the fuck off of telling women HOW they should look! Pardon my French but this is just getting ridiculous. Women have been catering to men for so long that they forgot about themselves and how what they do to their bodies affects them. A woman does not need to be stretched, and injected with poison or fat, liposuction or any of that other crap to make them look "Sexy" "Hott" "Young" for men or for other women to be envious of.
Sometimes I am ashamed to be a woman in today's society! Women are letting themselves be manipulated into being something they are not. All of these surgery shoes, Extreme Makeovers and the like these people are fucking sick...I can understand if you have scars...if you are an abused victim or other serious medical situations but to just do it because your breast are not big enough or your hips are not small enough its just WRONG!!! W-R-O-N-G!! Doe people not know what that means! Depravity at its best!
So my little cousin is 12 years old and she told her mother that she was too FAT...She ways not even 90lbs and she says she is fat..WHEN asked why she said compared to some of the girls at school and the models she seen she is to fat...OH..MY..GOD...I started crying....I cant believe this sweet little girl is torturing herself for not being the ideal image TO OTHER PEOPLE!!!
So I sat and suggest to her mother that they take her to see a nutritionist and a psychologist. Good heavens, she is 12 and its just wrong. What is wrong with women appreciating the bodies that have been given to them. My Aunt heaven help her, has so many medical problems and is in a wheel chair but damn it she never complains about her body she just wish she could be healthy...not skinny, not toned...nothing just Healthy...WHY CANT MORE PEOPLE SEE THAT BEING HEALTHY IS ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS!
Ok...so I am a little ticked off right now...SO I will stop bitching and go to bed...I do have a bad cold after all...Goodnight everyone...Dont be afraid to bitch about the world...Heaven knows there are not enough people thinking about the self abuse we are doing to ourselves.
Passion, Romance, Love and Lust...All things that drives the human mind and body.What makes us choose our mates? How do we know that the one we are with is the one we want to marry and love forever? Maybe its what some scientist have said, that we target whom we are attracted to by their smell or certain fixated points that draws us to them. Do we truly see who we are with? Or do we just focus on their outward appearance?So we come to the point in our lives where we say "Its time to settle down." How do we break it all down to who would be the best father figure and husband, or vise versa.
Another thing is how do we chose the mate they will treat us as equals, as the loves of their lives, as human, and as sexual creatures....Breaking point....How and why do people treat other that they supposedly love so poorly or abuse them either mentally or physically? Why?
How are women and men supposed to find someone they can trust and love in a world filled with horror stories of this person killing another or abusing another that they where supposed to love?
So many questions with hardly any answers!
So as this Valentines day comes remember to love everyone equally, dont judge, and if you see someone in a relationship that is abusive help them get help!
Loads of Love,
Ladykind
Yep, you read the title right, my final projects that make up most of my final grade are due and if I don't pass I loose my student loans and grants thus is why I am procrastinating like crazy. My final project for my Ethnics class is to write an Autobiography about Racism in my community from the first person perspective. And so far my friends for a project that is due in TWO DAYS!!! I have not written one freaking word!!!!!! lol I am sooo screwed...Oh well...lets see if this helps me some huh?
So I am sitting here at my computer looking over the Syllabus of what my paper has to cover and what this psycho of a teacher wants to know....and I want to find her and smack her with this stupid syllabus here is what the questions that need to be answered are:
- Do members of your community look like you? In what ways do they look the same or different?
- How do leaders within your community treat people who are like you? How do they treat people who are different?
- How do other members of your community treat people who are like you? How do they treat people who are different?
- Do your texts or work manuals contain information by or about people like you?
- Do the local media represent people like you? If so, in what ways?
- What are some similarities and differences between you and the people who are leadership positions in your community? Do you feel minority group interests are represented within your community?
- If you could resolve any inequities within your community, what would you change?How and why?
- Which main concepts from the text relate to race? Apply some of these concepts to your project.
Seriously, why for all that is good in this world, did I choose this stupid class....Some of those questions are just vague and silly...."Do members of your community look like you?" Well certainly 1/3 of the people that live here are my identical twins... I know I know..dont be silly there talking about race...and all that other crap...there are over 18,000 people that live here .....as far as I know then yes there might be some Native American/ German people here as well...I mean really. Geez..Ok so I am sitting here annoyed and trying to figure out how the hell I am suposed to compose this....freaking hell...sigh lol I better get to workk...just needed to vent
Ladykind
So? How are those resolutions going so far?
lol....hahahahahaha...Resolutions? lol...My resolutions didn't last 40 min. after I made them. I ate chocolate, ignored my tred-mill and I still have not cleaned my room...lol..yep..I suck at keeping resolutions!
What's the best thing between two slices of bread?
Submitted by Eric.
The best thing in between two slices of bread is peanut butter and bananas. Make toast, while the bread is still all nice and hott smother it in the peanut butter and watch as it melts and gets all gooey, then add sliced bananas and there you go, heaven in the form of a sandwich drink ice cold milk with it and well you could moan in ecstasy lol.
Which cartoon character best represents you?
I saw this question and started laughing about it. I have always been the odd person in my family, always cracking jokes, acting odd or just being a complete goof lol...Who represents me? Why none other the DAFFY DUCK! Its a shame that younger generations are missing out on the greatest cartoons ever LOONY TUNES! Daffy Duck, Bugs Bunny, Elmer Fudd, Marvin the Martian, Porky Pig, Taz, Yosemite Sam and all of those great characters lol. I still watch them whenever they are on, still cracks me up...Even that Bear that walks through the cartoon sometimes with the EAT AT JOES cardboard sign on lol.Awesome!
Well as I said earlier I think I have busted through my writers block by using this blog and this makes me very very happy! I love writing and I love knowing that I am creating a world where it can pull people in, where they subconsciously immerse themselves into the rolls of the characters.I love the fact that when someone is reading a story the lose themselves in the romance, the adventure, the chase or horror or even better laughing themselves silly at sarcasm or humor of the book they read..Everyone should have the moment where they stop and read something they enjoy, nobody reads that much anymore...I read every chance I get doesn't matter if I have read the book before a hundred times like I have read Bamboo and Lace, and Pandora its all in what draws the reader to the book...How the Author plays with there imagination and uses the who what when where and how to their advantage and I love that I can do it to....Dang I gotta go....Got something to do! Latter
Love and Laughter
Ladykind
The Holidays went by so fast didn't they? Now classes have started again and I am still wondering what I am going to do after I graduate. Christmas and New Years rushed by this year but thank fully I had a somewhat enjoyable Holiday. I had to cancel going out because me and my niece both came down with Fifths disease, I still look like a tomato..I got three books for Christmas Two Stephenie Meyer books (Twilight and New Moon) and How to Hear From God by Joyce Meyer. My father doesn't like the fact that I listen, read and watch Joyce Meyer's. For those of you who do not know who she is she is a Pastor who comes on TV alot. My father is the type of person who would rather me listen to some Hell Fire and Brimstone preacher aka...Billy Graham or I shudder to think John Haggey...(shudders)....Now I have nothing against them other then I think they are chauvenistic dweebs that spend to much time in the old test ament and Revelations..My father said that he couldnt understand why I would want to listen to a woman preach when men are supposed to be the only ones allowed to....I told him I could join Lesbianism and he dropped the subject....
Here is a little back story for you to help you see what Is coming....In my Sophmore year of High School I realized when I was making out with a friend of mine that I was bi-sexual of course the fact that I was making out with a girl should have tipped me off in the first place but then again I didnt know a whole lot about the 'Sexuality' thing then either. I made the mistake of telling my sister, not realizing that I was feeding the enemy vital information that would help them during a battle...So my sister kept this a secret for some time, and I thought she had forgotten it...Silly silly me.....She hadnt.
It was New Years Day...My family was all over...My family had been getting along quite well and I should have considered this the sign of the appocolpyse to come....silly silly me...
As the day went on things became...strained....One teasing remark between my sister and brother with my dad lead to an argument. I stayed out of it knowing that sometimes things could get violent, like the time my dad broke my brothers nose, any ways I stayed out of it....However, you know when there is an argument and someone agrees with one person and the other person agrees with the other side? Yep, it happened. Sister and dad on one side of the fight...mom and brother on the other...and little old me wanting to run screaming from the room.....When I agreed with my mom and brother, I knew I had made a mistake, that I should have just took my chances an ran the hell away.
My sister started yelling at me "Oh of course side with mom like you always do" and a few other comments that made me angry. Oh, I knew I should have just stayed silent....walk away...forgive and forget.....however, she said some pretty harsh things...and the next thing I know...Im dragging up her past boyfriends...the time she was arrested and her embarassing our family......
,My dear friends....I was a bubbling cauldren of intense emotions, I was feeling liberated...I was feeling confidant...I was forgetting she knew some personal things...I forgot how vendictive my sister was...I was suddenly backing away from my family in horror as I realized that during my elation at yelling and fighting back ....my sister had given me away...Not a big deal some would say...you would be wrong.....For years I had been fighting against my family for the right to just let anyone that was in a same sex relationship be left alone....to let them have their own lives...mainly because I swung both ways myself...But even though I am BI and not 100% gay...it didnt matter to my father...or brother...which I guess hurt more then I would admitt...mom said she had figured it out some time ago..(apparently she caught me ).I mean for heavens sake I went on a date with a girl from church....he knew...I mean really?!?! Still....I went from having a decent and nice Christmas to horror and embarassement in moments...My father has this nack of destroying someone....he does it amazingly well...I thought me and my dad had come to an agreement...I thought our truce would be held up...I should have known better....SO here I am...bursting into tears every 20 minutes...
I dont think I have stopped crying since New Years Day.....Ive kept to my bedroom. trying to find jobs that would have a nice sum of money so I can save up and get away from here faster...I sent applications out and I just want out....It hurts having a family thats completly filled with jack asses....Soooo........Now that is my rant of the day...I think I just busted through my writers block...who knew that Blogging could help you with something like writers block lol.
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Ladykind
